Monday, June 20, 2011

Happy Father's Day Babe!

I am sure many people believe that they have the world's greatest Dad, however they've been deceived! We have the world's #1 dad!! Babe you are so amazing with all three of our little rascals, and they adore you. Emmy has to give you goodbye hugs and kisses every morning or she is completely devastated! Brodyn is going to be 'mini-dan' he loves all the same hobbies you do and has your mellow temper and demeanor! The sweetest thing is watching you with Sophia. I love in the evenings when I am going about my routine, I'll check on Sophie, and find her snuggled next to you as you watch T.V. I love how you are not afraid of the infant stage and how you have this cute little connection with Sophie and how you love being with her. I love how you were so excited for another little girl when we found out what we were having.
I love how you can stay home from work almost whenever I need you, and how you help get teeth brushed, flossed, and swooshed at night. I love your spaghetti, when it is warm and ready when I get home from work. I am so grateful you are mine. I got lucky when I married you. What a blessing you have been in my life. I knew you had potential to be a good dad, but I didn't realize how truly amazing you would be at it! You are my dream come true, I love you!

Sunday, June 19, 2011

It's funny how one little eye can cause so much trouble!

May 16th, Thursday morning we woke up bright and early, to be at Primary Children's Hospital by 10:00 a.m. to check Brodyn in for eye surgery. It didn't feel like we had to wait long, because they moved us through so quickly. this was particularly nice, since our nerves were on edge.
Dan and I had to wear name tags and wrist bands with Brodyn's name on them, so the hospital staff could identify us and keep us with the right child. There were many kids going through out-patient surgery, that day.


Brody was doing great, until the nurse asked him to change his clothes into these hospital gowns, I hadn't prepared him for this step. Being my first surgery I wasn't sure what was going to happen either. Brody got quite upset and started to cry. The nurse was taking his blood pressure and it spiked, she said..."he must be nervous." I felt so bad and worried for him. He was so upset with us for making him change his clothes that he wouldn't let me take his picture.
The nurse was pretty good, she came back into the room after he was changed, she saw how upset he was and she said to him..."Let's see your shirt, is it a cool one?" "Let's put it back on over them and then the Dr. can take it off again when he needs to!" He liked that idea and settled down a little. Because he was so nervous Dan and I decided to let the nurses give him a sedative to relax him a little. It worked wonders! It also helps to erase a little of what was going on so Brody isn't left with any traumatic memories.





The nurses brought us into the waiting room for surgery, and let Brodyn pick a little hospital buddy with it's own hospital gown. He was able to draw a face on it and give it some character. While he was coloring hair on top of it's head the sedative started to work and he stopped "mid-do" I asked him if he wanted me to finish it because he was feeling sleepy he said... "yes!" At this point he was getting 'loopy' and 'sleepy'. He was getting giggly and had slurred speech! All the pre-surgery worries gone!


The nurses had a little wagon ready to wheel him back into the surgery suite, he giggled the whole way...oblivious of what was happening! I on the other hand was so nervous I tried not to think too much about it. We stopped at the surgery doors and had to say goodbye, I gave him a kiss on the cheek and desperately wanted to stay with him the entire time. I am so grateful he was relaxed because if he was nervous and resistant I would have been a "closet" basket case!

The surgery started about 11:00 a.m. and by noon the Dr. came out and said everything went as planned and we would soon be able to see him. Only one of us could go back first. He was taken to the first post-op room, where a nurse monitored him as he came out of anesthesia. Dan and I rocked off to see who would be able to be there when he woke up, we both wanted to go. I won of course but later thought maybe I should have let Dan be the one to go back. It was hard to see him come out of anesthesia, he wanted to rub his eyes and he couldn't, so I had to hold them down. It was hard to know that as soon as he woke up, he would be in a little pain even with pain medicine. He was crying and wiggling around trying to wake up, I kept whispering in his ear that it was okay and that I was there and kept kissing him on the cheek. Fighting that frog in my throat. I did well and held it together for my 'little man.' My eyes watered a little throughout the day, and I kept fighting that frog in my throat but I didn't cry!

Coming out of anesthesia, it had been a long day even Dan was tired! Brody kept saying to me..."I can't wake up mom." I can only imagine how strange that would feel to a 5 yr old.

The nurse brought back apple juice, root beer slushies and fruit punch slushies, they were a big hit with Brody. He had to fast from bed time the night before until after the surgery, which is a very long time for a little tummy.


We had to keep switching out cold rags and laying them across his eyes. He was a little sore. Luckily the Lortab kicked in and he was a changed little man!

Brody named this little man "X-ee", he stayed with him the whole time!


Brodyn's recovery room. The reason Brody has this oximeter on his big toe, is because he was so ornery after the surgery he would not let the nurse keep it on his thumb, so she tried putting it on his big toe, but he kept kicking it off. It was important for it to stay on so the nurse wrapped it, so it wouldn't come off. She had some Dinosaur wrap that Brody liked so he allowed her to put the oximeter back on.

After about 2 hrs we were able to go home, Brody got a ride in this sweet wheelchair!Loving the root beer slushy! He did pretty well after surgery he threw-up in the car twice on the ride home. He said it was because Dad was driving crazy. We have drops that have to go in his eyes 3 x's a day, for a week which he does not like. I make faces after I drop the drops on his closed lids and ask him to tell me what face I am making, it takes awhile but curiosity wins out and he opens his eyes to see.

Tuesday, June 14, 2011

The things kids say!

I love the little things my kids say...

Emmy walked in behind me as we headed into her bath room to brush teeth and randomly she says..."awkward" in the funniest tone. She also is always saying "No matter, mom"...and then fills it in with whatever... like, "no matter, we can do it this way." What she's trying to say is "it's okay or it doesn't matter!" She is our solution girl, she is always telling us how to make something work out. She also says "oh sorry, mom" for something she's done or is going to do, today she was going to turn the light on when I was trying to put the baby to sleep and before she does it she's says "oh sorry, mom I have to turn the light on"...and her tone of voice and expression on her face was so remorseful!

Tonight Dan asked Brodyn why he had to get his eye fixed...he said, "because it's crooked dad!" While I was getting them in the tub I pulled my hair up to get it out of the way and Brodyn says..."don't do Marsha." Whenever I pull my hair up I am apparently Marsha and when my hair is down I am Mom. I said why don't you like Marsha? Brody says, "because Marsha cleans and Mom plays with me!"

Wednesday, June 1, 2011

Sophie's first pictures!

MaRea took these pictures she did a fabulous job, they turned out pretty cute. We really had to work with Sophie, she just wouldn't fall asleep, (it's easier to take pictures of them when they are

sleeping!!) She finally did fall asleep and we got some cute ones!

Look at those cute pouty lips!
Teddy bear ears!

pretty girl

Snug as a bug in a rug!

Baby Sophie

"this little piggy went to market!"

so... so... sleepy


Princess Sophie

I love this little angel!

Saturday, May 7, 2011

Happy Birthday Sophia Ayva Thatcher

Sophie surprised us Wednesday morning, my contractions were present all night. It seemed like they were coming every 40 min, 30 min and 20 min intervals, I didn't sleep well and toward the morning hours I was actually rolling out of bed and standing up until they passed and then would crawl back into bed and go to sleep. At 6:30 I finally just got up to get ready for work, at this point it seemed they were showing up every 10 min, but they weren't terribly uncomfortable or painful. I still didn't even consider I was going into labor, because this same thing happened with Emmy and they ended up stopping.
Usually I pack the kids up and we are out of the house by 7:15 a.m. to drop them off at Melissa's, but since 7:00 a.m. my contractions were every 5 min, and still not terrible enough to be painful. I decided to let Dan take them to Melissa's and I got into the bath to shave my legs and thought maybe the warm water would help with the contractions. At 7:41 a.m. I called work and said to Jan "I am still at home, I haven't gone to the hospital yet but my contractions are 5 min apart...I am not going to make it today!" Then went back into the bedroom and said to Dan we might have a baby today. If I would have known within the hour she'd be here I would have hurried a little more!
I tried to get some toast for the kids but just couldn't, at this point the contractions were getting mildly uncomfortable where I really had to breath and walk around, so I went into our bedroom told Dan to grab the toast and then tried to put a hospital bag together (this is why they say to prepare your bag early) and did manage to grab the camcorder and camera. We jumped in the car, drove to Melissa's and dumped the kids off as fast as we could, Melissa ran out water and two Tylenol for me, and the contractions were still coming every 2 min. Dan said to me "Don't have this baby in the car!" I said "Why would she come that fast the two before didn't!"

We made it to the hospital quite fast after Dan decided yielding for red lights was better than stopping! He ran in to find me a wheel chair which was not available, so as soon as my contraction stopped I knew I had 2 min to walk into the building into the elevator and up two levels before the next one began, and sure enough as soon as I walked out of the elevator another one began, and I knew she was close. Three nurses ran out with a wheel chair, and took me back, Dan checked in at 8:32 a.m. and 9 minutes later Sophie was born at 8:41 a.m. If it wasn't for running those red lights we may have had her in the car! I was so lucky my Dr. was just upstairs in recovery visiting patients, all he had to do was come down the elevators put on a gown and catch Sophie. When they paged him the nurse said..."You'd better run!" I had to wait through one contraction where I could feel Sophie crowning and the nurses telling me..."don't bare down...don't push!" I'm thinking, my body is taking over there is no way I can tell it to stop pushing. Finally Dr. Kirkman made it and two contractions later Sophie popped out!
After Sophie was born the nurses were able to get us to sign papers and answer the questions they put in to the computer, like if your allergic to anything, what medications your taking etc. One nurse asked if I'd taken in medication, I said only prenatal pills but Dan said, "She took two extra strength Tylenol this morning." The nurse said, "Did she have a headache?" Dan said "No she took them for the contractions!" The nurses then all started laughing, because that is all the pain relief I got for that delivery!! Hey maybe it helped take the edge off!!
Sophie had some merconium in her bag of water and cried the second her head came out, the NICU nurse sucked out 10 cc's of green fluid out of her tummy! This made her so mad, she didn't stop crying until we were headed to our recovery room. I've never had such a mad little baby, but it was good the crying helped clear her lungs as well.
Big yawn! Sleepy girl!Emmy, baby sis and Grandma Brenchley. Grandma was so awesome she came and brought Emmy and Brody some gifts (which I think really helps them in this new little transition of adding a new little one to the pack!) Then she vacuumed my house for me...which I didn't get to do before Sophie came! Emmy loves Sophie, but I can tell she is just a little unsure of her new role and place. She likes to do things after I do them to or with Sophie. I gave Sophie a bath in our little infant plastic tub and after I got Sophie out, I hear I little body jump out of the the big tub and I turn around and there is my biggest baby curled up in this tiny little blue tub, she barely can fit, it was so cute and of course I had to take a picture! I am being extra careful with her, she has had a cold and ear infections so I've tried to keep her from touching Sophie's mouth and face, it's hard and there is that fine line of helping her still fill comfortable, and not left out.
My Big Baby!


Sophie's first bath at home!

In the hospital still!

Emmy trying out mom's uncomfortable bed.

Brodyn has been so amazing with Sophie, such a great big brother, he has asked to hold her more than anyone else!

Dad, Brodyn and Sophie.

Me with my new brood of three!

Grandma Thatcher visiting with baby Sophie!

Sophie 19 inches long!

Sophie was 7 lbs. and 3 oz our biggest baby!

Monday, April 25, 2011

Easter Morning!

This is not the dress that the Easter Bunny brought, but it is more special! Grandma Brenchley made this dress. I didn't know she was making it, it is just so cute! Emmy picked Grandma's dress to wear to church not the Easter Bunny dress!
Brodyn and Emmy in their new Easter clothes!

The Easter Bunny left make-up and lipstick in Emmy's basket.

Emmy showing me her princess bag!

The Easter Bunny loves to leave books!

Brodyn got nascar race cars in his basket!

Brody's new book!

Easter morning was actually warm enough for the Easter Bunny to leave fun treats outside, and we were able to scavenge around the yard and pick them up!

Emmy found another stash!

Brody hunting for Easter Eggs!

Off they go!

loading up their baskets!